About us

NoMo (from ‘Non-Monogamy’) is a community of people who identify as ethically non-monogamous, actively engage with or are curious about the polyamorous lifestyle. A unique cross between a sophisticated play party and a self-improvement group, NoMo enables you to explore radical intimacy, a type of polyamory which puts romantic and sexual connection, freedom and development at the heart of a supportive, growth-focussed network. In order to deliver an experience catered to your level of comfort, NoMo offers an online platform for news and debate via NoMo: Community, as well as a physical space for members to interact via its two events NoMo: Icebreaker and NoMo: Playground.

For us, trust is key and authenticity is paramount. This is an environment, safe and protected, for the most powerful experience of physical, intellectual and emotional sharing. NoMo is focused on acceptance and self-growth. We believe that through sharing sex and radical relationships, through developing intimacy, sexual confidence and emotional intelligence, we can make a difference to ourselves and, beyond that, to the wider world.

NoMo: Icebreaker

Icebreaker is NoMo’s monthly social, designed for members new and old. It happens every first Friday of the month at a bar in London’s Zone 1 or 2. This free event is members-only so you must register and be accepted before attending. NoMo is a community focused on acceptance and self-growth. We believe that through sharing sex and radical relationships, through developing intimacy, sexual confidence and emotional intelligence we can make a difference to ourselves and, beyond that, to the wider world. Visit our events page to see all upcoming dates. RVSPs are kindly encouraged.

NoMo: Playground

Playground is NoMo’s radical-lifestyle play party. The event is held each quarter in exquisite private apartments in Central London. NoMo aims to distinguish themselves by crafting a state-of-the-art experience for the senses and for the intellect. Only a limited number of carefully vetted ethical explorers are brought together each time. There may be a charge to cover costs.

NoMo is a place that encourages you to give and share. By making you feel safe, NoMo frees you to push your boundaries: you are released to take those steps to where and who you want to be. Here, by acknowledging the inherent abundance of love and life, we are able to let go of our sense of lack. You can explore and share that full sexual and emotional self in an exclusive, hedonistic environment where relationship building and physical contact among all participants is encouraged and welcomed.

At NoMo, couples, primaries and partners do not exist. Being here, you have already stepped off the path of socially dictated norms about how your sexual and emotional lives should operate, but if you cannot let your partner roam free without jealousy, fear or control, this is not the place for you. NoMo operates with a tight, but simple, consent framework. To be here you must be comfortable being around friends and carefully vetted newcomers who may want to be intimate with you.