Women and female identified only social – August 2018

Last night I ran the third of our women and female identified conscious relationship socials. It was another successful evening with half a dozen of us getting together to talk about monogamy, non-monogamy and the challenges of managing WhatsApp as well as difficult feelings! There was lovely range of experiences and everyone had different stories […]

Podcast on conscious relationships

Listen to Dr Lori Beth Bisbey and I discuss conscious relationship choices, the challenges inherent in all relationships and the common mistakes we ALL make in this episode of her successful and engaging podcast, The A to Z of Sex. P is for Polyamory No ratings yet. Did you enjoy this read?

NoMo:Icebreaker – August 2018’s social

It is such a pleasure to be sitting here to write a summary of our recent social and to be thinking can I really write another piece that says just how enjoyable, friendly and fun the evening was? The feedback we get on the night is always so enthusiastic. Typically there is an even split […]

“Come as you are”- Book review by NoMo member, John

“Come as you are”, Emily Nagoski (2015) Scribe Book review by NoMo member, John All my life, I’ve been interested to read anything I could get my hands on about sexuality, and this book is much the most insightful guide to women’s sexuality I’ve come across. She stresses that there are more differences within each […]

City and self

I am back in my city. Having lived in three countries before the age of twelve and more than twice as many houses and locations in those countries, London is the only place I have ever called home. The list of places in London that I have lived in the ten-year stretch of my twenties […]

Overcoming the fear of change and loss

One thing that often gets missed, in all the drama around the changes I have gone through in the last three years, is the immense sadness and pain that the ending of my marriage has caused me. Yes, I chose to do it and, yes, I needed to, for all sorts of complex and very […]

Meg John Barker writing on non-mongamy and self…

It is all too easy to try and reduce complex ideas and issues down so as to save time and also to create the idea that things, such as relationships, can be easily understood, or “got”. Meg-John Barker is a writer and speaker and they recently gave a key note speech at this event in […]

NoMo:Icebreaker July 2018

So, yes it is HOT. But, clearly, sweltering temperatures do not diminish the craving for connection, support and fun as we saw over 20 conscious relationship explorers get together at the “usual place” in Zone 1 to talk love, sex, monogamy, politics, philosophy and all things in between… except the football, I don’t think anyone […]