NoMo:Icebreaker July 2018

So, yes it is HOT. But, clearly, sweltering temperatures do not diminish the craving for connection, support and fun as we saw over 20 conscious relationship explorers get together at the “usual place” in Zone 1 to talk love, sex, monogamy, politics, philosophy and all things in between… except the football, I don’t think anyone […]

One-penis policies: processing jealousy and the need for rules about rules

The question that most people ask, when they learn that a person is exploring a non-monogamous or polyamorous relationship framework, is: don’t you get jealous? And one of the most common reasons given for not wanting to explore a similar set-up themselves is that they fear feeling jealous or think they are already ‘a jealous […]

NoMo on BBC Radio Five Live

Your founders were asked to contribute to a conversation about polyamory and non-monogamy on BBC Radio Five Live earlier in April 2018. The dialogue was between us as well as a psychologist and researcher, Dr Christine Campbell, and relationship coach, Sam Owen. Listen from 2:36. We would love to know what you think! https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/b09yd4pv

Dan Savage On Why Sex Always Wins (via Refinery29)

The takeaway I wish everyone would wrap their heads around is that sex wins. Sex always wins. Sex is more powerful than you are. Sex is 500 million years old. It built us and it will build whatever comes after us. People like to pretend that they’re in charge of their desires or their sexuality, […]